If you asked most guys where a good place to meet women is, the first thing they'd probably say is "at a club" or "at a bar". In the sense that, yes, you will find women at clubs and bars, they're right. However, if you're having to read articles on the internet to learn how to pick up women, chances are the bar-scene isn.t your best stage. Women have all of the power in the bar scene, which is why they love dressing scantily and traveling in packs from club to club. Leave the bars and clubs to the well groomed $30k-millionaire douchebags. The rest of us will have to get a little creative. Here are some ideas on places to meet women:
The Internet
The fact that you.re reading this is evidence enough that you spend plenty of time on the computer. Why not integrate your prowl for women onto the internet while you.re at it? If you.re not too cheap to cough up a $20-$40/month subscription fee, online dating sites can be a great place to meet women. Sites like eHarmony use the results of a personality test to pair you with potential dates. There is no easier, lazier way to meet girls than from the comfort of your own living room. Internet dating is also great for timid guys or guys new to the dating world. Approaching a girl at a coffee shop or grocery store takes some balls (or at least a good SSRI prescription). With online dating, you can save yourself a lot of Paxil and embarrassment.
Through Volunteer Work
Nothing makes you seem like more of a sweetheart to a girl than volunteering for a good cause. First impressions are incredibly important when it comes to attracting girls. Donate a couple of hours per week to a worthy cause (such as a homeless shelter, animal shelter, or child advocacy group). Any girl who crosses your path in this venue is likely to judge you as a kind, responsible individual. With that level of trust already in place, your odds of getting a date increase significantly.
In A Recreational Sports League
Round up a few buddies and start a bowling team or join a softball league. Just make sure to sign up for the co-ed league, obviously. The numbers won.t be in your favor since recreational sports leagues generally have more men than women. However, as long as you keep your top priority on meeting girls and leave the game-at-hand at a distant second, you should be able to separate yourself from the pack of competitive jackasses who don't realize you're hitting on their sister on the other end of the bench.
A Leisure Learning Class
Find out what classes your local leisure learning school is offering, and join a couple of the more feminine ones. Dance classes, cooking classes, and yoga classes should be chock-full of women. It'll be like a buffet of girls with very few other customers interfering with your reach for the dessert!
A Dog Park
If you have a dog, take it to a dog park. Be prepared to set your eyes on dozens of single girls who decided it was a nice afternoon to bring Fluffy out to play. While the dogs sniff each other's asses, you can work towards doing the same (you sick bastard) with the cutie in the short-shorts.
A Grocery Store
Here's another place that works in favor of the girl:guy ratio. Additionally, the element of surprise is in our favor, since women aren't expecting to meet guys at a grocery store. You'll need some skills to convert a grocery store patron into a date, but it can be done. The key here is humor. If you approach a girl and ask her what her name is, or tell her you think she looks nice, she.ll probably bolt for the exit. But if you can come up with a witty line to make her laugh, she might stick around long enough to give you her number